Visit a Charming Vermont Village, & Stay at a Gay Owned B&B

Newfane Vermont fall 2009 - Image Credit chensiyuan - Wikimedia
Newfane Vermont fall 2009 – Image Credit chensiyuan – Wikimedia

Newfane is a small village of about 1600 residents in Southern Vermont, surrounded by tree-covered hills and filled with New England charm. The village dates back to the mid 1700s – it has a long history, and even featured in H.P. Lovecraft’s The Whisperer in Darkness.

Not far away, you’ll find the Gay Beach and Nude Swimming Hole on the Rock River, which has been a safe space for men to gather for over 50 years. At the end of the trail, there are a series of deep, clear water swimming holes. Known as “Indian Love Call” by the locals there is a long tradition of nude bathing on the Rock River as there is in Vermont in general. On any summer weekday or weekend, you will find 50-150 friendly men at the Rock River’s men’s beach.

The Brattleboro area (Brattleboro is 12 miles from Frog Meadow) is well known for its open, gay-friendly progressive values, welcoming attitude, and longstanding embrace of diversity. Vermont was a trailblazer in farm-to-table restaurants and that movement is well represented here. There are numerous Farmer’s Markets and a natural foods coop, 3 microbreweries & a distillery. Brattleboro boasts a rich cultural & visual/performing arts community that includes monthly gallery walks, museums, music, theatre, circus arts performances, frequent artist’s open studio tours, literary & film festivals -including an annual LGBT film festival. Aa a result, it’s no surprise that Brattleboro has been: 

  • Voted #11 of the “20 Best Small Towns in America” by Smithsonian Magazine…
  • Listed as one of “Eight Great Places You’ve Never Heard Of” by Mother Earth News…
  • Named #13 among “America’s Top 25 Art Destinations” by AmericanStyle Magazine…
  • Ranked one of the Ten Best Small Art Towns in “The 100 Best Art Towns in America”

Newfane’s Own Gay Oasis

Frog Meadow - Newfane Gay B&B

Newfane is also home to a well-established gay B&B. Frog Meadow is 4 miles from the Rock River trailhead.

When you pull into the driveway at Frog Meadow you can immediately sense you have arrived at an oasis. A place, as the website promises, where you can shed the trappings of the outside world and be yourself. Owners Scott and Dave – a couple of 32 years – at once make you feel welcome and at ease with their easy openness and good humor. 

Bucking the trend of assimilation and the disappearance of gay places, Frog Meadow offers single and coupled men a place to relax, recharge and reconnect with themselves and other guests. Frog Meadow’s guests are primarily Gay, Bi and Trans men but all men are welcome. This unique and special destination resort is off the beaten path and well worth the visit. 

Frog Meadow - Newfane Gay B&B

After a 16-month pandemic pause Frog Meadow is busier than ever and is a sought-after destination for men of all ages from the US, Canada, and Europe and beyond. Amenities include massage by Dave, a wood-fired hot tub, spring-fed swimming pond, full gym, recreation trails, extensive annual and perennial gardens, and plenty of options to just chill and do nothing on the 63-acre park-like property. 

Frog Meadow’s six unique suites, rooms and cottages offer comfy beds with premium bed linens and other high-quality amenities. Your stay comes complete with a full, made-to-order hot country breakfast prepared daily. In season, you will find local berries, apples, preserves, edible flowers, asparagus, fresh herbs – and of course, honey from Frog Meadow’s beehives and apple cider from the orchard at the breakfast table.

In 2023 Frog Meadow will reinstate their all-inclusive Men’s gatherings, workshops & retreats programming with a Fall Yoga & Wellness retreat in late September and a Massage & Tantra retreat in late October. Scott enthusiastically notes “We’re so happy to once again be supporting the community with retreats following the extended COVID break…our men’s gatherings, workshops & retreats provide a rich opportunity to celebrate, transform, integrate and heal body, mind, spirit and sexuality…in a relaxing and comfortable, supportive and safe environment for men.”

Frog Meadow - Newfane Gay B&B

Dave’s no-nonsense philosophy on massage is that the body, mind, and spirit are intricately intertwined components of the whole being. If any one part is out of alignment all three suffer. By assisting in bringing the body into balance, the mind and spirit benefit as well. With his XXL hands and a 5’10” and 220-pound muscular frame Dave has the strength and power to work out the deepest tension, and the finesse and gentle touch to pamper and comfort. 

Scott & Dave have also been community activists for many years through Frog Meadow’s Community Partners in Pride program. Past and current community partners have included AIDS Project of Southern Vermont, Pride Center of Vermont, Fenway Health, the New England Center for Circus Arts, Grace Cottage Hospital, Out in the Open, Equal Justice Initiative and Rock River Preservation.

Discover Newfane, Brattleboro, and Vermont’s Gay Oasis – why thousands of men from around the world have enjoyed the unparalleled experience that Frog Meadow offers to the Men’s community. 

More info: Frogmeadow.com | 877.365.7242 | Facebook | Trip Advisor | Instagram

Getting there: Frog Meadow Oasis for Men is approximately 2.5 hours from Boston, 3.5 hours from New York City and 2 hours from Hartford, CT. Fly into nearby Hartford/Bradley Airport or Boston/Logan. There’s daily train service from NYC, Philadelphia, and DC.

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Sugar Tree Inn – Blue Ridge Parkway Gay Friendly B&B

Sugar Tree Inn - Blue Ridge Parkway Gay Friendly B&B

Blue Ridge Parkway Gay Friendly B&B –
Leave Technology at Home & Relax

Our Bed & Breakfast is the ideal place to come and relax with friends, family, the special person in your life, or just a nice get-away for yourself. Our Blue Ridge Parkway gay friendly B&B is less than a mile from the Parkway.

Our expansive front porch and even larger newly built deck is the perfect place to watch the hummingbirds and sunsets while enjoying a glass of your favorite beverage.

We provide an inclusive environment for all our guests. Everyone has the right to feel safe in a relaxing environment while reconnecting with themselves and their loved ones. We also host weddings and reunions (up to 30 people maximum.)

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Pinecrest Bed & Breakfast – Asheville Gay Friendly B&B

Pinecrest Bed & Breakfast - Asheville Gay Friendly B&B

Asheville Gay Friendly B&B – Historic Elegance with Modern Amenities

A comfortably elegant five bedroom inn, our Asheville gay friendly B&B Pinecrest sits on an acre of lush gardens in the desirable Montford historic district, one mile to downtown Asheville. We are three miles to Biltmore Estate and 6 miles to the Blue Ridge Parkway.

Serving indulgent breakfasts, fresh baked cookies, and complimentary beverages on our sunporch. All 5 en suite guest rooms have been recently renovated with modern amenities yet still exude historic charm. 

Owner/innkeepers Dan & Diane look forward welcoming you to our home. We can provide our guests with recommendations for restaurants, activities and upgrades like in-room couples massages.

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Viking Inn – Solvang Gay Friendly Motel

Viking Inn - Solvang Gay Friendly Motel

Boutique Solvang Gay Friendly Motel
in the Santa Barbara Wine Country

The Viking Inn is a historic, boutique, Solvang gay friendly motel located in the Danish Village of Solvang, in the heart of Santa Barbara’s Wine Country. 

Our 13-room inn is steps from Danish bakeries, world-class wine tasting, boutique shopping and some delicious restaurants. Our bright and comfy rooms are the perfect complement to your visit to California’s “Little Denmark.” 

Cruise the village on one of our complimentary bicycles and end your day relaxing with a glass of wine by the fire. If you’re looking for a friendly place to stay in this charming historic village, come spend a weekend (or a week) with us!

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Jeremiah Mason House B&B – Southern Maine Gay Friendly B&B

Jeremiah Mason House Bed and Breakfast - Southern Maine Gay B&B

Southern Maine Gay Friendly B&B –
Maine’s Best Kept Secret!

The Jeremiah Mason House is located in the village of Limerick, Maine, in the beautiful foothills of the White Mountains.

Our Southern Maine gay friendly B&B is within an hour’s drive from Portland, the Sebago Lakes Region, and ski and outlet areas in North Conway, New Hampshire, our rural country setting boasts many opportunities for biking, hiking, boating, swimming, and winter activities such as snowshoeing and cross-country skiing. 

For Summertime pleasure, we are only 40 minutes from the east coast which boasts a gorgeous 7 mile stretch of beach.

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Captain Grant’s 1754 – Connecticut Gay Friendly B&B

Captain Grant's 1754 - Connecticut Gay Friendly B&B

A 1754 National Historic Inn
and Connecticut Gay Friendly B&B

Captain Grant’s is a haunted Connecticut gay friendly B&B on the National Register of Historic Places. It was built in 1754 and is fully restored to accommodate the modern traveler. We are centrally located to the area’s main attractions. We are between Foxwoods and the Mohegan Sun Casino. Mystic is a 15 minute drive through the gorgeous country side.

The Inn sits on four acres of lawn and is perfect for a wedding or special occasion. On the grounds is a large fire pit that is meant for guests to use. We contribute the wood and a fire starter. All rooms have a full private bath. Each room has a carafe of sherry. Wine, beer, soda, cake and cookies are complimentary offered in the dining room. A full country breakfast is served each morning.

The Inn has been featured on several TV shows. The latest was a series on Netflix called “28 Days Haunted”. We have also been on the BBC, Travel Channel, HGTV, and A&E. We have over 1000 repeat guests who return again and again. We call them our Captain Grant’s family. Please see us on Trip Advisor.

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Hotel Erwin – Gay Friendly Venice Beach Hotel

Hotel Erwin - Gay Friendly Venice Beach Hotel

Oceanfront Gay Friendly Venice Beach Hotel Close to Restaurants, Shops

Venice is different. Sure, it’s California, but it’s an area of California unlike any other; an area that Hotel ERWIN has personified since the ‘70s with its eclectic décor, friendly staff, and predominant location right on the beach and adjacent to the world-famous Venice Beach Boardwalk. 

From our gay friendly Venice Beach Hotel, it’s just an 8-minute walk to trendy restaurants/shops on Abbot Kinney Boulevard, and a 10-minute walk to the Venice Canals.

Our colorful rooms feature fun artwork, flat-screen TVs, plus private balconies, some with city or partial ocean views. We also offer suites with separate living and dining areas.

We even offer bikes for guest use!

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White Oak Inn – Gay Friendly Danville B&B

White Oak Inn - Danville Gay Friendly B&B / gay friendly Danville B&B

Gay Friendly Danville B&B
In Ohio’s Amish Country

Welcome to the perfect getaway in the heart of Ohio’s Amish Country – White Oak Inn sits on a quiet country road, and our Ohio inn has been consistently voted by our guests as one of the top bed and breakfast country inns in the US.

Our gay friendly Danville B&B is known for its fantastic service, wonderful food and top-notch accommodations.

Whether you’d rather stay at the inn, relax and do nothing, or head out to enjoy an adventure-packed weekend, you can find it here. Enjoy that book you’ve been planning to read on the front porch swings while you watch the hummingbirds and butterflies. Or take part in one of our murder mysteries!

There’s also canoeing, golfing, cycling or fishing for the more adventurous, or you can take a drive around the countryside and discover wineries, shops, antiques, auctions and many other great local attractions.

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Come As You Are Inn – Gay Long Island B&B

Come As You Are Inn - Long Island Gay B&B / Gay Long Island B&B

Gay Long Island B&B Serving the LGBTQ+ Community

Come As You Are Inn is a welcoming gay Long Island B&B (Bed and Breakfast) serving the LGBTQ+ Community – we’re gay owned & operated and bloody proud of it.

Located in Sayville, New York, in the heart of Long Island, Come As You Are Inn is situated in a convenient location – in proximity to the departure point for the Fire Island Ferries to Cherry Grove and The Pines.

The house is a short walk from the Sayville Railroad Train Station, two blocks from downtown Sayville, and a brisk 20 minute walk to the Ferries! Because of allergies, dogs and cats are not welcome at “Come As You Are Inn”; and sadly, this must include service animals.

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Arizona Sunburst Inn – Gay Phoenix B&B

Arizona Sunburst Inn - Gay Owned Bed & Breakfast in Phoenix, Arizona / Gay Phoenix B&B

MEN ONLY, CLOTHING OPTIONAL GAY PHOENIX B&B

Arizona Sunburst Inn Bed and Breakfast is a gay owned, clothing-optional men’s resort in the heart of Phoenix – a gay Phoenix B&B that’s like having your own private desert oasis out in the countryside.

Our clothing optional Phoenix bed and breakfast features a beautiful heated pool in a tropical setting, surrounded by palm trees. Relax on a hot day on one of our wide, shaded patios, cooled by a mist system, and soak in our hot tub at night and let the worries of the day melt away. You can also enjoy clothing-optional sunbathing and swimming during your stay with us.

Arizona Sunburst Inn Bed & Breakfast is in one of Phoenix’s best neighborhoods, and is a great place to stay while exploring Arizona’s capital city. For adventurous outdoor lovers, there are great mountain hikes just a couple blocks away – your hosts can direct you to the trail.

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