Has the World Changed for Queer Travelers?

Author: , October 14th, 2017

aul J. Heney and partner in Rio de Janeiro

Over the last few years, the acceptance of LGBTQ people has improved a great deal in most of the Western world—including the legalization of same sex marriage across the United States. But there are always pockets of greater and lesser acceptance in different regions, countries and cities.

We asked some frequent travelers what their experiences have been.

Keenan McGarvey, a 25-year old teacher from Seattle, believes the world has changed in regard to the LGBTQ community, and his experiences have been positive.
“In my experience that [positivity] is reflected more in the other travelers I meet than in the places I go to visit,” he said. “As a gay man, I already have the tendency to choose travel destinations where I am not going to be scrutinized too closely for busting out a pair of short-shorts. But I also feel that in general as a tourist, most places do not investigate your sexuality during your visit. What I have noticed is that I feel much more comfortable being myself and dropping pronouns about my exes in conversation with other travelers I meet than I maybe would have five years ago.”

Valerie and Jessi are married travelers who describe themselves as nomads. They have visited a new city or state every 2-4 weeks for the past 9 months. They see “immense” changes, at least in the U.S. “As a lesbian couple traveling from our safe harbor of San Francisco, not once did we face the discrimination we once faced when coming out 10 years ago,” they explained. “With that said, we are also white, cis-gendered, and have feminine energies that often present ‘straight.’ Our perspective is limited to our experience, but we came out to a lot of people all over the USA and never once had a mean remark, snarky look, nor a negative response. Did we get lucky? Probably. But we were surprised how warm and accepting people were.”

By Paul Heney – Full Story at Travel Pulse

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Purple Roofs LGBT Travel Newsletter 10/11/14

Author: , October 11th, 2014

Scott & MarkWelcome to the Purple Roofs LGBT travel newsletter.

We’ve got lots of other great stuff for you this time, too – including some great feature articles: Visiting Dubai, The Dolomites, The Cinque Terre, Florence, Sorrento, Fall Foliage, Gay Illinois, and Hermann, Missouri.

And our articles section has five parts – local news, general interest, reviews of past events, travel event news, and sweepstakes and contests.

Check out our brand new Facebook Travel Clubs – discussion groups where you can ask questions and meet other travelers. Jon a club or two – everyone’s welcome in each group, but the discussions should be related to the group topic:

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Trans Travelers: https://www.facebook.com/groups/transtravelclub
Bisexual Travelers: https://www.facebook.com/groups/bitravelclub

And check out our Gay Travel Events section – more than 500 pride events, film festivals, circuit parties, and much more, now with photos, descriptions, and links to lodging for your stay.

You’ll also find some great accommodation specials and discounts, tons of upcoming gay travel events, and much more.


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Our Featured Articles This Month:

Dubai Desert SafariDUBAI: Visiting Dubai for a Desert Safari
by Book Dubai Trip
If you are taking a desert safari in Dubai, there are a number of activities that you can enjoy. The main one that all safaris include is dune bashing. This involves driving around sand dunes in a sport utility vehicle. While the vehicle is zipping along the side of the dune, it may seem to be almost tipping over, but it is perfectly safe since the drivers involved are skilled and have significant experience in this activity. Dune bashing is a must for excitement junkies but may not be for everybody. If you are the kind who is easily nauseated, you should probably think twice before going dune bashing.
Full Story

Dolly in the DolomitesITALY: First Hike in the Dolomites
by Dolly Goolsby
Yes! Although the clouds covered the mountains this morning, we decided to give hiking a try anyway. We got on a bus which took us to the gondola station, then took the gondola up to the meadow, and the little town of Compatsch. By the time we got there, the clouds were already starting to break up, the sun came through and we enjoyed a very nice little hike, up to the area called Panorama. The scenery was so beautiful I didn’t know which way to look first, or second. The weather was great, not too cold, not too warm. From our vantage point, we could see trails going all over the meadow. Again, choices, choices! Which one to do next? We even got to see a couple of llamas on our hike. Lots of cows, a few horses.
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MarinzenITALY: Visiting Marinzen
by Dolly Goolsby
Today, according to weather.com, it was supposed to rain. I am glad to say that once again the forecasters were wrong. We woke up to a beautiful sunshiny day. Right now, at 4:00 p.m., I am sitting on the balcony of my hotel room and this is my view: So we may get the rain tonight, but it is still very nice outside. Instead of going up to Compatsch today, we decided to go only halfway up the mountain. There is a chair lift right here in town that took us up to a little mountain restaurant that has pastures for cows, horses and the ever-present goats. This little area is called Marinzen. It is a pretty spot, with hiking trails running up to Marinzen, and several leading away from there.
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Dolomites - DollyITALY: Our Last Day in the Dolomites
by Dolly Goolsby
Yes, I am almost packed and ready to leave in the morning….physically, that is. Emotionally, not nearly ready to leave this gorgeous area. I find the Dolomites to be so majestic, yet so relaxing to be here. I think I said this last year, also, that I know my blood pressure is so much lower when I am up here. My thoughts are clearer, I feel healthier, and every trail I see I want to be on it. Today was a bit cloudy, the mountains wanted to retain their mantle of clouds, so we stayed down in the valley. We took a bus up to the village of St. Ulrich, or Ortesei (either name is correct) and I am not quite sure whether Val Gardena is also the same village, but if not, it is very close. There will be World Cup skiing competition in Val Gardena in December of this year, so I will watch for that.
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Italy Food Tour - Dolly GoolsbyITALY: Italian Days Food Experience in Modena, Italy
by Dolly Goolsby
Wow. What a day we had! We had arranged to do a tour again, with Alessandro, owner and creator of Italian Days Food Experience. Susan and I had done this tour last year, and I thought, correctly, that my travel group would enjoy the experience. All the products we got to see and taste, the cheese, the balsamico, and the prosciutto, are certified DOP, which means that they are made according to the regulations of the consortium that makes sure all the steps are followed, from the feeding and care of the cows that produce the milk for the cheese, the grapes and aging process of the balsamico, and the food fed to the pigs that become prosciutto as well as that aging process. It is a very exacting process for each step for each product, but that DOP seal means that one can be sure of the high standard and quality of those foods.
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Vernazza sunset - DollyITALY: Vernazza in the Cinque Terre
by Dolly Goolsby
Wow! Once again time has gotten away from me. We are packing, getting ready to leave Cinque Terre tomorrow and all at once I realized I had not posted anything from here. We arrived in Vernazza in the late afternoon on Saturday. Weather was good, for which we were very thankful. Weather.com had predicted rain for all three days that we would be here. It had rained in Bologna most of Friday and again on Saturday morning, but when we had to walk to the train station, the rain had stopped. We got to La Spezia, where we had to change trains to get to Vernazza… and what happened? That train was cancelled. A train strike was scheduled to begin at 9:00 p.m that night, but in preparation for the strike, several trains were cancelled. We did only have to wait an additional hour to catch a train, but dealing with that was stressful.
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David - FlorenceITALY: Back in Florence
by Dolly Goolsby
Yes, we have been in Florence since Tuesday, but we have been so busy trying to see everything that I haven’t had time to write. Now, 3 of the travelers are packing, getting ready to leave tomorrow. I hate to see them go. This has been another very good tour group. Lots of fun, and they got to have so many great experiences. On Tuesday, we walked to our apartment from the train station, got settled in, then only had time for a brief walk before dinner. On Wedensday, we went to the San Ambrogio mercato, got food for our meals, and everyone got to explore a bit, see the different stands and help choose our food.
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Duomo in Florence - Dolly GoolsbyITALY: Last Weekend in Florence
by Dolly Goolsby
Yes, this will be our last weekend in Florence. On Monday we will travel by train to Sorrento. All of our travelers left us on Momday, so just Susan and I are here in Florence now. Since this is my favorite Italian city, I was very happy to have the extra days to enjoy this lovely place. Many changes are occurring in Florence, as I mentioned in an earlier blog. The city is cleaner and seems to be fewer gypsies around, but those people do seem to pop up whenever the police leave the area. Gypsies are beggars. That seems to be their sole source of income…other than picking pockets. Some of their dramatic scenes are pretty funny to watch.
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Church in Sorrento - Dolly GoolsbyITALY: A Serene Day in Sorrento
by Dolly Goolsby
Susan and I arrived in Sorrento in the afternoon on Monday. We had traveled from Florence to Napoli on the new Italo train, a train system with which I am very much impressed. Then we had to fight the huge crowds in Napoli Centrale station to get to the Circumvesuviana train which took us to Sorrento. Of course, that train was crowded, also, and it was very warm. Finally, we arrived in Sorrento, walked down the Corso, found our hotel, got settled in, then set out to find some lunch. We walked down to the Marina Grande, had a light lunch, then went back up to the main part of town and tried to see some of the city. There were so many large tour groups in the city that everywhere we went, we felt like fish either swimming upstream, or caught in the school of fish swimming downstream. We finally gave up, went back to our hotel and just waited until evening to venture out again.
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FallUSA: Must See Fall Foliage Getaways – Gaycation Magazine
by Gaycation Magazine
It is not too late for travelers to book their fall getaway and see autumn in its full glory.

Here are HomeAway’s top places across the U.S. to take in this season’s best fall foliage with stays at vacation rentals ideally located near state parks known for their vibrant color displays.

New England is one of the best-known regions for dazzling foliage displays set amid bucolic backdrops.
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Gay Pride BoystownUSA, ILLINOIS: Traveling with Pride in Illinois
by Jen Hoelzle, IL State Travel Director
So you missed summer in Chicago and all of the outdoor music fests and neighborhood block parties that come with it? Never fear! There is so much to do in Illinois in the fall and – as the 16th state in the nation to legalize same-sex marriage – we are proud to offer plenty of options for LGBT couples looking for a fun and friendly getaway. Whether you are looking for romantic hideaways to escape and unwind or exciting cities to explore vibrant LGBT neighborhoods, we have it here in Illinois. From Chicago’s bustling Boystown scene, to picturesque Galena on the western border of Illinois, to the state capital of Springfield to the sprawling Shawnee National Forest in the southern region, there is so much for couples to see and do in Illinois. At all of these destinations, you’ll find Travel Alternative Group (TAG) approved hotels, certified based on their diverse staff and commitment to the LGBT community.
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Hermann, MOUSA, MISSOURI: Traveling in Our Fabulous Gay World: Hermann, Missouri, A Very Interesting Town, Part One
by Donald & Ray
Just how much fun and how interesting can a small town in the middle of Missouri with a population of only about 2,500 be ? Well, if it is Hermann, Missouri you can have a LOT of fun. Hermann was founded around 1837 and sits right on the banks of the Missouri River and is located about 75 miles west of St. Louis and about 175 east of Kansas City. Hermann’s downtown which sits directly on the banks of the River is filled with shops, restaurants, bars and a winery and brewery. Actually there are about 7 wineries in the area. It is a German settlement and the buildings all are the same as they were for over 150 years although thanks to many people including Jim and Mary Dierberg, they have been brought up to date and refurbished.
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We also scour the web to bring you all the gay travel news we can find. You can see these posts on a daily basis at http://www.purpleroofs.com/gay-travel-blog, or sign up for our RSS feed. Here are some of our favorites from the last month.

Local Stories:

BAHAMAS: Lesbian Travel: Lighthouse Beach in the Bahamas
The combination of turquoise and deep blue water, pink sand, white cliffs and vibrant green foliage are what make Lighthouse Beach so unique and intoxicating.
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CANADA, ONTARIO: The Thousand Islands on a Budget
The Thousand Islands, located on the U.S.-Canada border, is actually a misnomer. There are, in fact, 1,864 islands floating like dots on the Saint Lawrence River.
Full Story

When it comes to reputations Bogota – the capital of Colombia – used to be right up there with Bagdad, Mogadishu and Pyongyang as a holiday destination.
Full Story

COLOMBIA: Three Ways to See Bogota
We already covered how you can explore the Colombian capital with a $20 bicycle tour, but that is just one way to see Bogota.
Full Story

COLOMBIA: Country Goes After the Gay Travel Market
When Tatiana Pineros took the helm of this city’s tourism agency in July, she became the face and an example of Colombia’s transformation.
Full Story

DENMARK: Living Like a Dane in Copenhagen
Gay Pride is a huge deal in Copenhagen. Denmark was the first country in the world to legally recognize same-sex unions, and this year the city by the sea was still buzzing from its Eurovision high a few weeks earlier.
Full Story

GERMANY: Country Goes After the Gay Tourism Market
It’s time to get excited! ‘Why?’ we hear you ask. Well, those lovely people at the German National Tourist Office have just re-launched a brand new website just for us – yes dear LGBT reader, that means you – so that we can learn more about Germany and everything that it has to offer next time we visit.
Full Story

NEW ZEALAND: Queenstown Rocks in the Snow
It is hard to imagine a more beautiful place than Queenstown on the South Island of New Zealand, and it is hard to imagine a better time to visit than during Gay Ski Week.
Full Story

SWEDEN: One Weekend as a Swedish Hipster at Popaganda Festival
Stockholm has long been described to me as one of Europe’s trendiest cities.
Full Story

UGANDA: Tourism Officials Claim Gays Are Welcome Despite the Jail the Gays Law
Ugandan tourism officials have said the African country still welcomes gay tourists despite repeated attempts to pass an anti-gay law.
Full Story

USA, CALIFORNIA: Hopping on San Francisco Cable Cars
Hopping on the cable cars in San Francisco is a must thing to do when visiting the city.
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USA, CALIFORNIA: The Extraordinary History of the Folsom Street Fair
This Sunday, Folsom Street in San Francisco between 8th and 13th streets will close down to car traffic and welcome over 400,000 people to the largest kink and leather event of its kind.
Full Story

USA, CALIFORNIA: Sonoma Valley: Going Gay Among the Vines
It’s harvest time among the vines of Sonoma County, just outside San Francisco.
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USA, COLORADO: Wild and Rocky Road
I found the heart of America in western Colorado. After rolling in the hay with gay cowboys in the glamorous and multicultural Denver, I ventured further out into the mountain state where I found more coywboys and cowgirls, endless landscapes, deserts, forests, rivers, lakes and the warmth of Colorado’s people.
Full Story

USA, FLORIDA: ManAboutWorld Names Fort Lauderdale “LGBT Destination of the Year”
Greater Fort Lauderdale, the city with the highest concentration of same-sex couple households in the U.S., beat out worldwide competition to be named “Destination of the Year” by the 2014 ManAboutWorld Editors’ Choice Awards, recognizing the very best in gay travel.
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USA, FLORIDA: Still More to Do To Make Fort Lauderdale Trans Traveler Friendly
Broward County’s tourism bureau has been marketing to the LGBT community since 1996, but results of a survey released Monday show extra effort is needed to attract more transgender travelers.
Full Story

USA, NORTH CAROLINA: North Carolina is Perfect in October
North Carolina might just possibly be at its best as summer gives way to fall. In the mountains, the leaves turn brilliant colors, and the days are still warm enough for beachcombing at the coast.
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USA, VIRGINIA: Richmond on the Gay Side
The city that once served as the the Capital of the Confederacy and is now the state capital of Virginia has flirted with “the gay thing” in the past but last month, Richmond officially announced that it is gay.
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USA, VIRGINIA: Spartanburg: Food, Wine, Art, and Glamour in Central Virginia
It’s early November, so the leaves have only just changed color, creating a fluttering sea of crisp reds, oranges, and golds across the quiet hilly terrain of central Virginia.
Full Story

General Interest Stories:

Diversity Rules Magazine Launches IndieGogo Campaign
Our friend Jim Koury at Diversity Rules Magazine has launched a new fundraising campaign over at IndieGoGo.
Full Story

Purple Roofs Picks a Winner
Step off the plane and the first thing you notice is the warm tropical breeze, full of the scent of plumeria, jasmine and tuberose, wrapping you in a wonderful feeling you’ve really arrived in paradise. And that’s just the first few moments of your escape from the normal. It gets better. Our winner for our Maui Sunseeker Sweepstakes is Dave McCausland of Barton, Vermont.
Full Story

paSeven Animal Safaris Around the World
Safari may mean ‘we go’ in Swahili, but Africa is not the only continent where safaris are a major tourist attraction.
Full Story

Seven Affordable, Gay Friendly Off-Season Getaways
Summer has bid us adieu, but that’s no reason to put your luggage away.
Full Story

What is Gay Friendly Travel?
I think we can all agree that the term “gay-friendly” and the increase in its usage is a good thing.
Full Story

Five Amazing National Parks for Fall Colors
If you want to catch our nation’s deciduous trees taking on a vibrant palette of yellows, reds, and oranges, now’s the time to plan a road trip.
Full Story

ISRAEL: Jerusalem Pride Goes Ahead After Delays
Hundreds of people marched through the Israeli capital yesterday night for Jerusalem Pride despite two delays due to the war in Gaza.
Full Story

Past Events:

RUSSIA: St. Petersburg Pride A Success Despite Problems
In a stunning show of poise, purpose, and power, organizers of the International Queer Culture Festival made the event — also known as QueerFest — a reality in St. Petersburg, Russia, on Thursday even as thugs and public figures tried to stop them.
Full Story

SERBIA: Belgrade Celebrates First Gay Pride in Four Years
Serbia is finally allowing a gay pride event to go forward in Belgrade.
Full Story

Upcoming Event News:

AUSTRALIA, NSW: Got New Year’s Plans Yet? How About Tropical Fruits?
(Dec 21-Jan 1) If the glitz and glamour of Sydney are all just a bit too much for you on New Year’s Eve, look no further than the beautiful Northern Rivers region of New South Wales!
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CANADA, ONTARIO: Toronto WorldPride Chooses Vancouver Artist’s Work
Jun 22-Nov 15) Vancouver’s Pablo Munoz is one of six Canadians whose work will be shown at the Art Gallery of Ontario during a special exhibition marking WorldPride 2014 in Toronto.
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CARIBBEAN: Transgender Cruise Planned for December
(Dec 14-21) Travel agent Jeff Land blocked cabins on a Royal Caribbean sailing in December for what he believes is the first trans cruise. “This has been a dream of mine for so long,” Land said, “because it feels safe being with other trans people.”
Full Story

COSTA RICA: Gay Surf Week in November
(Nov 8-15) We’re not going to ask what you like to ride, but if it includes waves, consider Gay Surf Week 2014, which promises to offer a week of sun, fun and waves for gay and lesbian surfers and beach lovers in Tamarindo, Costa Rica.
Full Story

USA, CALIFORNIA: Palm Springs Celebrates Gay Pride in November
(Nov 7-9) “I am Pride: Stonewall” is the theme for the 2014 Palm Springs Pride Celebration scheduled for November 7-9, ending with the parade.
Full Story

USA, CALIFORNIA: BearQuake Coming to San Diego
(Oct 18-1) Bears from throughout Southern California will converge on Rich’s San Diego Saturday, Oct. 20 for the Mr. SoCal Bear/Cub Contest & Show.
Full Story

USA, FLORIDA: New: Gay Days Fort Lauderdale
(Nov 25-Dec 1) According to Gay Days president Chris Alexander-Manley, the event is expanding into Fort Lauderdale.
Full Story

USA, MASSACHUSETTS: Women’s Week Returns to Ptown in October
(Oct 13-19) For the past thirty years, Provincetown has hosted a festival in October like no other.
Full Story

USA, NEVADA: Evolve Returns to Vegas for New Year’s Eve
(Dec 31) Evolve 2015, a unique gay New Year’s Eve celebration, is more than just a party – it’s a 3-day experience attracting men from more than 30 countries to Las Vegas.
Full Story

AUSTRIA: Win a Romantic Trip for Two to Gay Vienna
(Enter by 8/31) Imagine walking down gay Vienna’s infamous Ringstrasse en route to the Vienna State Opera with your loved one.
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CURACAO: Win Five Nights in the Caribbean at the Floris Suite Hotel
(Enter by 4/1) We have some exciting news for the next sweepstakes – PurpleRoofs.com is teaming up with Gaycation Magazine to bring you our first contest prize from Curacao in the Caribbean, at the Floris Suite Hotel.Full Story

USA, WASHINGTON: Win a Dream Gay Wedding in Seattle
(Nov 1) Seattle is proud to announce Marry Me in Seattle, a celebration of marriage equality that includes special year-round, customized hotel packages and offerings for gay and lesbian couples.
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Gay Travel Events – The List:

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